@ann The menu appears below the header image and above the slider. We have designed the theme this way. Currently there is no such option to put the menu below the slider. This will need some coding/css customization so you may have to hire a developer on this one.
For the color change of the circles. You can use the custom css option for this. In the dashboard, go to Appearance->Theme Options->Design Options Tab->Custom CSS. Paste the following css and click on ‘Save all Changes’.
#controllers a:hover, #controllers a.active {
background-color: #DE7F2F;
color: #DE7F2F;
}
You can put the color code of your choice. http://www.colorpicker.com/